How my friend killed himself and SBA didn’t do shit, they knew he was gonna do it but later then I talked to DR. Hugo and he said, “we couldn’t do nothing, because he already had a Choice”
It was a normal day at my school in San Diego, some girls had gone to the park and I, Chris my friend who called him brother (he was transsexual) were inseparable. When we had been in the park for more than 30 minutes I felt that something was wrong there at home [school] and I did not know what to do but I felt very worried, [I have religious beliefs that I practiced with spiritualism and forebodings] When we arrived at school , I stayed talking with my Boss, [trainer and a professional amateur] I hadn’t seen chris, so I ran up out of nowhere without saying a word to my Boss, I went into chris’s room, I felt a terrible vibe, strong, a smell, I felt like she was dead [I shared what he felt], she wasn’t in her room, so I opened her bathroom door, and there she was, but something looked different. He was hanged, he killed himself. What I did was take him down from where he was hanging and I began to do CPR while I shouted the name Alberto [Boss], with my tears falling Alberto arrived, I went to the ambulance, after such a long process of police, ambulances, etc… .
They moved the entire group of girls to the second house [it is part of the institution] they also took the children, between the crying and suffering of the staff and students, I decided to help my colleagues and staff, since I did not feel anything Still, I knew that later I would feel the grieving process. Alberto and I helping each other since we were and are very connected, we were the only thing we had of trust, love, honesty, everything. after certain hours the children returned to house 1 since they were not in the upstairs area [where the incident happened], after certain days between tears of love, mourning, therapy, among others, I heard that Chris died Instantly, since my neck was broken, after hearing that shady news I broke down, I fell to the ground in tears. One day I decided to go to chris’s bathroom [in house 1] to free his spirit, when a terrible vibe came in, I meditated and connected with him [not specifying what I did for chris’s privacy and because of beliefs that do not allow this ] In the end, I returned to house 2, after 3 days, a girl entered the bathroom and said that she felt a pleasant, light vibe, Alberto had said the same thing a day before she entered, from there I knew to release him. After days, the girls calmed down and already wanted to go back. In the end we all came back and we had to get used to it.
Name:
Natasha
Program:
Sunset bay academy
Location:
Tijuana Mexico, Tijuana
your story got to me a lot.why?well i also saw staff make fun of and goad a suicidal 14 year old.she drank shampoo to self harm bc there was nothing to hurt yourself with in the basement where we were.i watched staff members make fun of her and tell her she didnt really want to kill herself and should stop trying to get attention.her mom yanked her out of program and a week later she shot herself.the staff used her death to scare the students.they drove her to it.her name was Kelly Spendlove.she was 14 when she died.im so sorry your friend died.i felt compelled to tell you this.i was at cross creek manor in the 90s.different program but similar shitty treatment.i just wanted to validate you by sharing this.take care of yourself.hugs